Love
can be pain but it can be sweet at the same time . What is love ? Love is what
makes you smile when you're tired. Love is what can make you smile when you're
crying.
People
usually will ask adults , "what love means to you " and they will
said how love is something you feel towards someone that you can't even
describe it. But asking the same things to children really do open my eyes .
Rebecca,
8 years old girl , answer is "when my grandmother get arthritis,she
couldn't bend over to paint her toenails anymore. So , my grandfather does it
for her all the times,even when his hand got arthritis too. That's love."
You can say that children are a good observant. They look at others and make a
logic by themselves .
Danny,
7 years old boy gives a good answer saying " Love is when my mommy makes
coffee for my daddy and takes a sip before giving it to him , to make sure it
taste okay."His answer are so pure , her mom must be so proud of him. No,
I'm not even trying to make love seem so easy , but then , the way you shows it
to other especially children are simple . Just do it in simple way , they will
know how people show their love towards each other.
If
you ask adults, "Are they way people taste someone coffee before giving to
them called love" they will answer no. Yes they will answer no . Because
tasting it first beforehand can't define someone love . She maybe taste it so
the taste will not makes the one who drinks get mad or anything. See the
different?
From
all the answer given , I love how matured this girl , Jessica , 8 years old
kids , answer the question."You really shouldn't say i love you unless you
mean it.But if you mean it, you really should say it a lot. Because people
forget."
Thins
answer of 8 years old kids somehow brought a deep feeling in my heart. How
about you ? She telling you the truth . People tend to forget. So, we should
remind them a lot . But some people say , we should not just depends on what
people said because sometimes that i love you words just a words without
meaning.
But
what ironic is , when people really means it , they tend to only show their
love using their body language not their words. And adults, because they keep
thinking out of the box , they can't see that simple body language and need
words to confirm it .
That
how love works . If you think simple gesture is their way of showing you love,
you will get misunderstanding. But if you think otherwise, you will not get the
simple gesture at all . So , I'm asking again, what is love to you ?
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